Posted on 01/12/2014 11:15:50 AM PST by SeekAndFind
I knew a guy who would go to the bar, pick out the best looking girl, and walk out with her within a half hour. His method involved talking about himself and flashing a huge wad of cash. These girls were middle to upper middle class. He looked and dressed like a 1970s used car salesman. He never failed, and he never dated them a second time.
Women are terrible judges of men.
Exception being the simple and straightforward observations (that are really orders) like "the trash is piling up" or "the car doesn't work."
Another one I am dismissive about. If sex isn't up there reasonably high as a priority, I don't need a relationship with that woman. Begging isn't my thing.
Now see, I've never owned a huge wad of cash, lol!
Chivalry....Really?
for the record, I hate German cars because of the Nazis and I don’t think a guy should have one
Most of these seem to indicate that the biggest turn-off to whatever woman created this list is “not being the center of attention.”
BMW - Big Mexican Woman?
I happen to have a Prada bag (leather tote bag I can put a file in) I love that I bought off ebay for $125. It will last longer than lesser bags. I despise Dooney and Burke bags and anything Coach.
I’ve found that, “uh-huh. Yes, that’s terrible. Uh-huh, what a shame,” is usually the best path to take.
My repsonses:
1. To a point yes, but I don’t have time to stare into your pretty blue eyes all day. Things need fixed and work needs done. There is a time and place. Work hard/play hard honey. The attention thing goes both ways too. It ain’t all about me, me, me.
2. You may hate cocky braggerts (actually there are too many women that seem to LIKE that) but men don’t like conceited beeotch princesses either, so right back at ya.
3. The self-admiration things goes both ways, especially if it’s peppered with ‘like’ and ‘OMG’ and ‘totally’ and your girlfriend drama. That’s a huge turnoff and a really big one when you expect us to listen no matter what, but it only goes one way. Men also really hate hypocrites too.
4. I get the obsessed with sex thing, but at the same time not every time you hop into bed needs to be a Harlequin novel. Sometimes just banging the headboard hard and fast is fun and fulfilling and can lead to some awesome interaction as well. Mix it up a little. We men also like it when you aren’t obsessed with having sex with other men behind our backs when you get a little bored with us.
5. We hate superiority complex feminism as much as you hate chauvinism.
6. Yeah, but sharing the childrearing duties means that - sharing. Not calling it sharing while you half-ass it and drop your end of the bargain, and then get ticked if we men aren’t there for the kids just one time and act like you are going to take custody of the kids from us.
7. Yeah, and men hate the groupie boyfriends-on-the-sly ‘friends’ and exes that women keep around, claim there is nothing there, and are in bed with 2 hours after you have a big fight or break up. Cut the flippin’ strings already and make a freaking committment, for real.
8. And when we are courteous, be appreciative, and not the expectant princess. I.e, be a lady.
9. Conversely, a real man likes a woman who can get her hands dirty and doesn’t need to be done up 24/7, yet knows when she needs to get done up to and not be a slob all the time either. It’s called balance, and most women have difficulty with it.
10. Guys like sense of humor too, and not many women have it. Also, be a little kind, the guy is putting himself out there already. He may be a little lame but also have a heart of gold. And not every guy likes pickup lines either, so be a little flexible too.
I'm intrigued.
Can’t please them, so why even try?
They tell you they secretly want “a man just like Dad;” but when you spank them for not doing the dishes, say they can’t have a new dress, and go to bed with their mother, they come unglued.
I farted in front of a hot girl. My friends called me out for it. My reply was “I’ll bet she farts too.”
She laughed, but I didn’t get anywhere with her.
Well, we know what came to mind when Bill Clinton read that remark.
Wrong scent I bet! :)
“6. Expecting the Woman to Take Care of the Kids
Some men have the misconception that motherhood is something that comes naturally and that women want to devote their lives to child-rearing. On the contrary, many women are as focused on their goals, careers, and social lives as men and they prefer to share family responsibilities.These women do not want to be left home feeding babies and changing diapers while their partners maintain their normal business and social lives. This is one of the female turn-offs that takes a serious toll on a relationship.”
If the woman really wants to be the man then go to it, Skippy. Why do you think America has been falling socially at the rate it has been? Women left the home to be just like the men. Why do you think America’s fertility rate is now just below the minimum replacement level? Women are too busy being the men.
If America (and the West) is to become a leader of the nations again it is going to take men and women getting married and committing themselves to God and family.
The huge wad of cash can be a 20 wrapped around a bunch of ones. Around here we call it a “Kentucky bankroll.”
Clean shirt, new shoes
And I don’t know where I am goin’ to
Silk suit, black tie,
I don’t need a reason why
They come runnin’ just as fast as they can
Cause every girl’s crazy ‘bout a sharp dressed man
Gold watch, diamond ring,
I ain’ missin’ not a single thin
And cufflinks, stick pin
When I step out I’m gonna do you in
They come runnin’ just as fast as they can
Cause every girl’s crazy ‘bout a sharp dressed man
Top coat, top hat,
I don’t worry cause my wallet’s fat
Black shades, white gloves,
Lookin’ sharp and lookin’ for love
They come runnin’ just as fast as they can
Cause every girl’s crazy ‘bout a sharp dressed man
This list is irrelevant.
Basically, women can be more picky when they are younger.
Men can be more picky when they are older.
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