“There would be zero abortions if the father would own up to his responsibilities and help financially and be a good father. Sounds absurd but it would be so.”
Sounds absurd because it is absurd. How about pregnancies where the woman doesn’t even bother to tell the father that she is pregnant and gets an abortion? How about the ones where the women are such tramps that they don’t even know who the father is? Or when they knowingly sleep around with men who have no financial resources?
Yours is probably the lamest attempt to pawn off responsibility for abortion that I’ve ever read. Anyone with a lick of sense knows that women are the ones making the decision, and men tend to have little, if any, say in the matter.
Not entirely true. Many women, upon telling the man they are pregnant, are responded to with nothing more than an offer to go Dutch on the abortion. Some “choice.” And...those trampy girls are sleeping with whom??
These foolish women who don’t believe in marriage and then have children, who are nothing more than leg spreaders for the various men who walk through these women’s lives,I say wake up! Have some respect for yourselves, get an education, a job, DATE men, and don’t bed em’ down on the first date, use birth control and protect your health, mental and physical. Search for a marriageable mate..have a plan of action for YOUR future and follow through with it. For those leg spreaders who get pregnant for the baby daddy and state funded money and all the perks that go with it, you’re part of the “pig society” who like to wallow in mud for free food and shelter. Generational members of the welfare state for life, by choice. You dumb, ignorant, foolish women reap what you sow. Keep your knees together, get an education, get a job, date and marry the man who measures up to your standards, and most of all, have a plan of action for your future. Women set the standards..be a real woman and start doing what is right, for yourself and for our society as a whole. And have a source of religious grounding in your lives..otherwise you’re just wandering, aimless, with no goals and no spiritually in your heart and soul.
I can't begin to tell you how incredibly wrong you are. I have worked directly with pregnant women who came to our pro-life group looking for support. Most of them were being pressured by their mothers/boyfriends/husbands to abort, or they had what they believed to be insurmountable financial issues. The vast majority, however, were pressured by men or their mothers.
So, blame women all you want, but I have talked to them directly, and most of them tell a different story. Additionally, if given a chance, many are looking for another way and will change their minds if given a chance.
Doesn't matter. Anything that absolves women of their responsibility for abortion will get universal affirmation...from women.