Huh? Children ARE the issue. They are the ONLY issue.
It’s not about what the adults want.
Look, it’s real simple. Here are the choices.
I want there to be:
1. Fewer abortions.
2. More abortions.
3. About the same number of abortions
4. I don’t care.
If your answer is No. 1 then your only option is to work toward that goal. Bickering about whether men or women are more responsible for a child being created in the first place doesn’t work toward choice No. 1.
If your answer is number 2,3, or 4, then yes, by all means, keep on focusing on the selfish wishes of adult men and women + assigning blame to one more than the other. This has certainly been a very entertaining for adults for the past millennia, but it hasn’t really been such a great deal for children or society as a whole.
If it were ONLY about children, there wouldn't be any abortion at all.
I can't force you to face the world of realpolitik, but I'm not about to join in your utopian fantasies.
You have tried every dodge available, but the one thing you will not do is countenance women taking sole responsibility for the exclusive prerogatives they exercise right now.