“I don’t blame feminism or women in the workforce (both have indeed resulted from men shirking their responsibilities)...”
Excuse me? What responsibilities do you think men shirked that led to these developments?
As for men “rutting around”, well, it takes two to tango. Who do you think men are rutting with?
In some cases, I think the men are rutting with other men!
As for the women, I think they are morons for not using birth control and not using general protection.
Frankly a huge reason I decided to abstain after breaking up with a boyfriend (nearly ten years of abstinence!) is because if I can’t afford a kid, I should not be having sex!
AS for responsibilities, they’ve been shirking their responsibility to show more respect for themselves and create a lot less baggage in their pasts. They should know by now that even the worst tart feels entitled to respect and a wedding ring.