Alas, I am not Chinese.
I have spent too much time arguing against people who complain about them ( in Asia and the US) for whatever reason. For the most part it is envy, resentment or fear, finding some lack of social polish as an opening for complaint. These complaints are useless.
Actually, you could pretend to be Chinese. Buddy Hackett made a career out of it only using a rubber band.
After 44 years of teaching ... and THOUSANDS of Chinese students I learned to take'em as I saw'em. They are like any other students.
The ONLY difference in the Chinese is that they have perfectly round nostrils. Lol. I asked my Chinese students how they could tell Chinese from other Oriental Asians. They told me that. So, I had the perfect way to see if students were Chinese or not....."Oh, look, up there in the sky. Is it a bird, a plane...no, it's.....:o)
The Chinese DID have the one-baby policy and thus almost FORCED the baby-girl infanticide. They DO prefer boy babies. THAT I never did get. What did Maurice sing about? "Thank heaven for little girls. Without them what would little boys do?" Great movie--"Fanny" from 1961.