All of the abuse you cite might work well in China where that is accepted, settled practice. But combine mental and physical abuse with the freedoms these kids see by looking out their window at modern-day America - and you have a recipe for disaster. Not unlike Muslim girls here who want to be free, wear makeup and go to the mall to meet with boys. I’m not saying that it would end up with Chinese honor killings - just a lot of kids who are mixed up and rebellious.
Yes, I agree, it won’t work for long.