I believe you have mischaracterized the methods of the SBC - though in the end, the SBC is NOT the standard of Christian truth. It is the Bible.
Let me rephrase your post to be more clear in words you understand...
“Apparently you also disagree with the methods of the Apostle Paul, the Apostle John, the Apostle Peter, God the Father and the Savior Jesus Christ then. Its about bringing people to Christ and clearly opposing error that perverts the nature of God and the Gospel of Grace, not about your personal preferences about which parts of the Bible you like best.”
I also wish you a Merry Christmas.
No I have not “mischaracterized the methods of the SBC”.
When they teach Christians to evangelize they teach us to speak the truth of the Bible, God and of course Jesus with love.
Speaking with love softens hearts. Speak with anger or a heavy hand hardens hearts. Of course its not a simple exercise when faced with non-believers or people with lots of anger in their hearts.