Sorry for being graphic but the pendulum has swung way too far. Women used to be a thing of mystery and something to be courted. Thanks to porn at very impressionable ages, they are just something to get off on.
Not long ago I posted about a couple of articles I saw in a magazine aimed at twentysomething college/career women. One was titled “Are You Hating on Your Birth Control?” (the unfortunate necessity, so the article would have us believe, of every young woman), and another was on “That Sex Thing ... Every Girl is Getting Asked To Do” (a disgusting and unnatural thing, a violation of a woman’s body). If these articles reflect the reality that’s out there, it reinforces the fears you have raised. It is a horrible, horrible time to be a young woman. There is no mystery, no romance, no courtship between the sexes anymore.
http://www.glamour.com/magazine/toc/2013/02/index_20130129