“Many younger women still have this “bad boy” phase they have to go through. Many of these bad boys have little to no money at all.”
I know of several women in their 30’s who married working class rock musician types who were 15-20 years older. The woman is the bread winner and the marriages seem to be fine and have been for several years.
You can always find success stories. Those are good to hear.
My take on musicians, in general, they are fun people to be around, but are usually not very stable. Lots of ups and downs and drama. I know a guy who would never get a date if he could not play a guitar as well as does. The guitar is his social ice-breaker. Whatever works, more power to him.