This is why the talk radio shock jock, Tom Leykis, always told his listening audience to never, ever spend more than $40 on a date.
The best part?
He told the men in his listening audience to eat a meal alone before you take her out to dinner. Once you are at a restaurant let her order whatever she wants and then you order only a salad.
More Leykis 101 Rules here.
http://antimisandry.com/facts-figures/tom-leykis-show-leykis-101-rules-5668.html
That site and those rules are disgusting.
When I was younger, we had a name for these women: “Dinner whores”
1st date dinner dates are for suckers.
If a girl likes you, she will like you regardless if you spend $10.00 on a date or $100.00 or $1000.00
In fact, the more you spend, the more uncomfortable many women will feel as they will feel a sense of obligation and/or that you are trying to “buy” their company.
You are basically sub-communicating that you think she’s a whore that can be bought with expensive dinners and insulting her.
One of the most amazing and beautiful women I ever dated, who was absolutely crazy about me and was my girlfriend for over a year didn’t give a hoot about fancy dinners and such.
Our first date was at a McDonald’s.
Tom Lykis is about as subtle as a sledge hammer, but I agree with about half of his “rules”
And women have their dating rules as well, and they are far more conniving and ruthless in many cases.
I could see him not wanting to pay more than $40 on a date however. The type of women he would attract wouldn't be worth any more than that.