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To: trussell

I have seen this type of story played out so many times. Usually, the end result of bad decision making. It seems to me that you are blaming a lot of other people for your problems- the landlord, the muslim girl, the psych doctor who threw the meds,the school.
You have had medical issues for how long? You are only just now applying for help? When you were hospitalized for your medical issues, you could have requested a social worker to help you find housing , EBT, and welfare. But, you are just applyng now. Bad decision.
You let your daughter drop out of middle school ( if I can recall). Your daughter has the right to an education, and you could have requested special assistance from the school, which by law- they have to provide.She dropped out. Bad decision.
If your daughter was special needs- she could have been eligible for SS. Did you apply at that time? Probably not- bad decision.
Living in a rural area in which you are unable to obtain public transportation- bad decision.
When the psych doctor prescribes meds- take them. Because some psych issues cannot be cured by “therapy” like bipolar disorder,schizophrenia, depression. By not following advice she exacerbated her mental health condition. Bad decision.
My advice to you is start being proactive rather than reactive in the future, becaue life has a way of throwing bombs in your direction, especially when you have physical and mental health issues. I can make a one liner about prayers going your way, but I am not like that. I tell it like it is.
If I was you, I would be on the phone daily to your local social service agency requesting help in housing, welfare asssistance. Start being proactive.


214 posted on 10/23/2013 11:13:59 AM PDT by kaila
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To: kaila

They asked for prayers not spiteful replies.


220 posted on 10/24/2013 5:39:36 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule the all)
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To: kaila
I have seen this type of story played out so many times. Usually, the end result of bad decision making. It seems to me that you are blaming a lot of other people for your problems- the landlord, the muslim girl, the psych doctor who threw the meds,the school.

Not blaming anyone, just telling how we got where we are.

You have had medical issues for how long? You are only just now applying for help? When you were hospitalized for your medical issues, you could have requested a social worker to help you find housing , EBT, and welfare. But, you are just applyng now. Bad decision.

When she was in the hospital for her medical issues she didn't need the help with housing and EBT...she still lived at home and was on my case.

You let your daughter drop out of middle school ( if I can recall). Your daughter has the right to an education, and you could have requested special assistance from the school, which by law- they have to provide.She dropped out. Bad decision.

She did not drop out in middle school, see...there you go ASSuming things you don't know. She dropped out at 17 years old only having 1 credit. She started attending classes for her GED and had pain issues. It was her decision, she was old enough to make that decision for herself.

If your daughter was special needs- she could have been eligible for SS. Did you apply at that time? Probably not- bad decision.

It wasn't my right to force my daughter to be considered disabled. That's a decision she will have to make on her own and after trying to work a paying job, and finding her medical issues made that difficult, she made that decision.

Living in a rural area in which you are unable to obtain public transportation- bad decision.

KMA...it's none of your business where we choose to live. We don't like the idea of living in a big city, with the big city crime. That has no bearing on whether a person needs assistance/help/prayers for issues.

When the psych doctor prescribes meds- take them. Because some psych issues cannot be cured by “therapy” like bipolar disorder,schizophrenia, depression. By not following advice she exacerbated her mental health condition. Bad decision.

Again, none of your business if she decides she doesn't want to be doped up. Most Conservatives will applaud her decision to avoid those medications, I am one of them.

My advice to you is start being proactive rather than reactive in the future, becaue life has a way of throwing bombs in your direction, especially when you have physical and mental health issues. I can make a one liner about prayers going your way, but I am not like that. I tell it like it is.

We will consider your advice and act on it as we deem appropriate. Thank you

If I was you, I would be on the phone daily to your local social service agency requesting help in housing, welfare asssistance. Start being proactive.

She has been there, done that. She isn't eligible for welfare and she refuses to run out and get pregnant just so she can get cash assistance.

224 posted on 10/25/2013 11:51:06 AM PDT by trussell (I carry because...When seconds count between life and death, the police are only minutes away)
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