...we’re from the gov’ment and we’ve come to help.
In a sense the “We The People” of this existing structure of government allowed it. All have shared in the hate — yes, it is hate — that paved the way for such deterioration of honor and, yes, love (we’d call it chivalry in this particular situation).
The answer is not in us ourselves. We are bankrupt of such virtue. The answer as it always was, though we were too proud to admit it, is in God — and serious outreach to heaven is needed.
Well, all people should come to help all other people (if possible). In extreme cases (defense of others) we might have to help them off of this mortal coil. But that is not a preferable, first choice. The degree of ease of it becoming a choice reflects the degree of hate we have in us.