There was a case a few years ago where this 18 year old black kid had oral sex by a 17 year old girl, and somehow the cops found out. To make a long story short he was sentenced to 5 years in jail and I believe he spent a few in jail until somebody in authority snapped out of their fascist/Muslim way of thinking and got him released. How insane is that? Can you imagine the mental hangups that kid is going to have when it comes to sex now? He’s going to be looking over his shoulder the rest of his life.
We may be thinking of the same case. I believe this young man just got out of jail last year. He was a high achieving student, rhetorically shot down mid-flight. Once the bureaucracy machine gets’ flipped on, it’s hard to turn the process off. I would have to stave off bitterness for the rest of my life.
I remember that case. Happened in GA I think.
If folks Waite for marriage, you could avoid all those hangups.