Hmmm. My sister was friends with Wesley Clark, politically and personally. She spoke well of him. I met him at my sisters home on several occasions for parties. His wife was never with him for these events, when I asked her about his wife, it was crickets.....lol. He seemed like a decent guy, of course that was when he leaned Republican.
Wes could be a charming guy when he wanted something out of the interaction and was not in a position to demand it. He was particularly so to those whom he believed could help him.