I have traveled the world quite a bit and except for New Zealand I have never seen any place as beautiful as the west coast of the US, but I can promise you, inspite of the weather, I will never come to San Fran again. Because my husband's nut case relatives might catch wind of it and if I NEVER see those insane people again I'll be happy.
Your husband's nut case relatives? Oh dear, there is a genetic component there. I hope you don't have children. Some of HIS nut case genes might sneak in there.
San Francisco is a part of the greater bay area with 7 million people. I SERIOUSLY doubt that you would be noticed.
However, you obviously have no liking for the Bay Area. That is good. We need NO MORE folks here. We have enough.