Why do you need to be referred to big band links from me? Google, Bing, Yahoo, ect are your friends. Youtube.com has plenty of big band links. Try a music service or something like Rhapsody or ITunes. Why do you have to even mention laying off the pot and the paranoia will go away. This is something I would never say and proof that you like hassling people and are just wise ass.
A person asks for your opinion out of genuine interest and they are hassling you?
Sorry pal...that sounds like the excessive 60's to me.
Hassling you, indeed!
Hey, "don't Bogart that joint, my friend!"
"Was that a knock at the door?"