And let’s be crystal clear here, a lady does not go to a bar and get falling down drunk, and hook up with a guy at that bar.
If you think that is a lady, well, we have a disagreement in what a lady is.
conversely, a gentleman does not prey upon drunk women either.
But in today’s college bars, you do not find that many of either ladies or gentleman. And you can tell that by the behavior they exhibit. Most are there to get wasted and hook up for meaningless casual sex. And that is not what real ladies and real gentlemen do.
Ladies stay in control of themselves so as not to act like whores and be a sexual tease, and so that nobody can take unfair advantage of them. gentlemen don’t prey on ladies because they aren’t there to use whatever woman is around that moment as a receptacle that night, and that’s the end of it.
But college bars are meat markets and truly, today, are no place for real ladies and gentlemen. The only thing that will come from it is desensitization to bad behavior.
All you have said is that one does not have to treat a woman as a lady if she is behaving badly. What nonsense. My behavior towards another is NOT based on their behavior.
The fact that young men and women are ridiculous in their behavior says more about their upbringing than anything else. My children and my mother’s children NEVER behaved in the manner which you and the current culture describes. NOT all college students are insane (which the drunken behavior makes me think they are). Because you see television shots of ‘spring break’ you cannot assume that is anything other than people behaving insanely. I know lots of college students that have NEVER gone to spring break....they were either busy sleeping, studying, or working.
If you want to admit to stupid fraternity behavior do so but please don;t paint the rest of the world with it. Our children only behave in a manner consistent with what they are taught. If we don’t demand better we will never get better