“these are two heteros who are living the homo lifestyle, unhappy they are really going to lose the freedom to do whatever, whenever, wherever, and their finances will take a big hit because of the burden of children.”
If that is the way they really feel they are better off not having children.
whether they realize it or not, they are two straight people living a homo lifestyle - a lifestyle focused on self-centeredness and narcissism and shallowness, and doing whatever you want whenver you want and damn everything else especially if it might inconvenience me.