“There ARE those rare instances where fertilization goes really wrong and, for all we know, this could be one of those.”
If you ever have the chance, discuss it with a man who suffers from SSAD. He will at first deny it, but if you pursue the matter, and if he hangs around instead of fleeing, you will sooner or later uncover a seduction or molestation in the pre-adult years.
He may have rationalized the trauma such that he believes he was already homosexual when it happened, and the perpetrator merely helped him “explore his sexuality.”
Many different kinds of trauma can induce PTSD. It is the trauma of a molestation or seduction in the pre-adult years that induces SSAD.
If you get to the point that he is asking if he had never run afoul of the predator that he would never have become homosexual, you will see in his face what the Greeks were trying to copy in their masks of Tragedy.
this is child abuse by the parents and those who encourage it