*snicker*
I do laundry and change diapers and clean up cat spews and drive kids around, like any other day.
I told my husband long ago that I didn’t expect him to do anything particular for Valentine’s Day. His coworkers are always astonished, as they struggle to generate “romance” for their “partner.” It’s a family tradition that we don’t “do” commercial holidays. We live on our own calendar, with special days like Lee-Jackson Day and Our Lady of Guadalupe.
At least, not with any likelihood of success. It's a lot more fun (IMHO) when done unexpectedly and for no particular reason.
What’s Lee-Jackson day, is that in connection with the Civil War?
Hub and I are the same way about holidays - he never remembers my b/day and I don’t care, we never exchange presents on Christmas, and Valentine’s day is a non-event entirely. Every now and then, maybe every couple of years, he’ll ask me what day we got married. I tell him (it’s on his birthday, which he also doesn’t remember) and that’s it.
:-D
What I love is when he does things like fixes the leaking kitchen sink, the washing machine, and wow - the day he came home with a new propane range! oooo-weee!
What I especially am fond of is that he is faithful, responsible, has no vices, doesn’t waste money, cares about me greatly, and is my best friend (besides God of course). All the hearts and flowers and ooey gooey stuff - Hallmark cards stuff - I’d feel weird if he tried it.