Your summary of her theory is pretty close to my theory.
My theory is, women either want a man similar to their Father if they had a good Father/Daughter relationship and/or they want a brutus beefcake type guy who treats them like a whore. The brutus beefcake syndrome happens when a woman feels like she has been chosen above all others since brutus can pick anyone. She’s willing to accept the degrading treatment because she’s obviously better than all the other women. If a woman can’t find a brutus, she settles for someone like her Father.
Nomex fireproof suit is on, ready for the responses. BTW, been in a loving monogamous marriage for 15 years and have been in a monagamous relationship with that same person for 18 years. I’m the guy that’s almost identical to her Father that she settled for after all the college flings that treated her like dirt chose others.
Of course, I’m fantastic in the bedroom so she has no reason to stray. LOL!
Flame away ladies.
no flames!! A little simplistic, but ...yeah...