Women who complain about their husbands put themselves in an equally bad light. Was this lazy bonehead the only one who would marry them? Were they so stupid that they chose to spend their lives with such losers? If so, they are losers, too.
Men have more important things to talk about, like sports.
I've never thought it good practice to complain about a spouse at work. Doesn't solve anything and I actually think it creates sympathy for the spouse who's being attacked.