“I don’t deny that a wife who refuses to do it is sinning, also.”
And that’s the point I’m trying to raise. We all hear about the men, but we don’t see the other end of things.
“We all hear about the men, but we don’t see the other end of things.”
I don’t know, I hear about both. A guy could be using porn (still a sin) because his wife is a cold meanie. Or, she could be perfectly willing and able and he just has issues.
Many years ago on Dr. Laura’s radio show, she was very intolerant of married men who viewed porn. In response to her regular rants against porn, a man wrote to her about his use of porn because his wife refused to have sex with him and he stated that he would not cheat on her with another woman.
From then on, whenever a woman called to complain about her husband viewing porn, her very first question to the woman was, “How easy do you make it for your husband to have sex with you?” In almost every instance, the silence was deafening.
Sometimes the reason a husband uses porn is staring right at a woman looking in the mirror.