Ok, so you did answer the question. Thank you.
What if the wife is choosing not to have sex with him? What then?
How can you be so sure this isn’t what is happening in this example here? All we have is the testimony of the wife.
If we heard a testimony from, say, your husband and he accused you of being frigid, unwilling to have sex, etc, wouldn’t you just be a bit angry if everyone believed him simply based on his testimony?
What we have here is the testimony of a couple where the husband has a porn addiction who refuses to deal with it and he’s leaving or rather abandoning his wife to deal with it the best she can.
I find it hard to believe that a wife who is bothered by it is also not willing to fulfill her husband. On the contrary, if she were that unwilling, it wouldn’t bother her that he was getting his needs met somewhere else.
He alone is responsible for his addiction, he alone is responsible for not being willing to deal with it, he is responsible to make his marriage work. He’s got a wife who’s willing to work at it. He’s not. That would indicate a willingness on her part to fulfill him.
He’s the man. It’s time for him to grow up and act like one.
Not only do you have no clue about marriage, you have no clue about women. Do the women you know a favor and stay single.