metmom, my hat is off to you. I can only hope that certain parties to this discussion open their eyes/minds and hear you, rather than continue to excuse sinful/lustful behavior in terms of a pity-party.
I’ve been dealing with an acquaintance who has her own issues with sin (not porn) and I am getting pretty sick of hearing the pity party and rationalizations and excuses. I hate the victim mentality.
Sin is sin and needs to be repented of, whether it’s stealing, alcohol, drugs, porn, lying, whatever....
It’s a choice.