I hope you are kidding. If not you are insanely ignorant and trashy.
No and you prove my point...the easily offended.
Haven’t you ever seen bachelor parties where the groom to be wears a ball and chain?
Or there is a cake with his face behind bars?
Same with bridal showers.
A real question is why a word offens you so? Oh, well that’s for you to decide.
Hay, stuck_in_new_orleans, I have boat, I can get you out.
“I hope you are kidding”
I am.