She’s still have her “daddy” (my my, your posts are certainly dripping with emotionalism!) if her “daddy” controlled her behavior, had her in bed at a proper hour for a four year old, didn’t let her run into the middle of the street late at night, and had not attacked the LEO who first of all tried to avoid hitting her, and then was giving her some kind of first aid.
She’d still have her daddy if her daddy wasn’t shot.
Perhaps you would have the chutzpah to coarsely tell a four year old she was better off without her daddy.
Just remember, if you do so, there is a God who sees.
*shaking my head*