There is a vast difference in speaking the truth in love and lowering your standards to appear "loving." This is an infection that appears to be spreading throughout all of evangelical Christianity.
A Southern Baptist church down the road from me recently removed "Baptist" from their church's name. I say they might as well also remove "Christian" from their nomenclature.
Do you know of a denomination that has taken a stronger stance against homosexuality? Do you know of one that has taken a stronger stance against what the BSA has done?