Good suggestions.
I will definitely get the book, read it, and give it to him. Thank you.
It is written by Karyl McBride called “Will I ever be good enough”. Written for Daughters of narcissistic mothers.
She is a Dr. and a psychiatrist. Through reading that book, my wife was able to understand and deal with her Mother. She was able to develop a much better relationship with her mother.
http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/
Dr McBride has a web site that also is helpful.
If later you want to speak with my wife, send a private FR mail or send your phone number.
We have been married 51 years, and I always have been polite and let my wife deal with her mother.
Her mother passed away about 10 years ago and we miss her.