[Age of Reason]

. . . do you cancel on him just before the date comes. Would you put up with the guy cancelling on you? Then don’t do that to the guy if you want a confident one.

If your self-esteem depends on a woman's behavior towards you, then it isn't self-esteem to begin with.

[JCBreckenridge]

As a gal would you put up with a guy cancelling on you right before a planned date?

Would you give the guy a second chance?

Doubt it. And why? Because it’s all about respect. Someone cares enough to set up plans with you - you show up. If the guy cancels the first thought is this - “I guess he really wasn’t that interested anyways”.

Again - respect is not hard, treat people the way you would want to be treated.