Wouldn’t the same be true, even if he wasn’t be a rude ignorant jerk, even if he was being a perfect gentleman, and it was all her fault?
For the sake of argument, let's use your assumption that he wasn't being a rude ignorant jerk, and she dumped her drink on him. So? Be a man and walk away. What's wrong with being the bigger person in that scenario?
Don't you get how foolish and frankly un-manly it seems for a man to press charges against a woman for dumping a drink on him?
Still, at least you're not like the jerk up the thread who says she was asking for a broken jaw ... YIKES! That dude has serious anger management issues.