We have windows 8 on ne computer and windows 7 on the other one. I know how to useboth , but i hate using the windows 8 one. My daughters and my husband feel the same way.
Hubby and I are both software engineers.
I was the same way - try installing 'classic shell' (it's freeware, and clean), it makes it all make sense again and you can begin to appreciate what 8 has to offer.