Actually I am not the “bossy” mom because I am usually in awe of all the work and time the “bossy mom” puts in. I have dealt with my fair share of moms/parents who just make excuses and have their hand out for someone to step in and take care of their kid and usually they are Dems. You say you walked around and tried to sell “camp cards”...if that wasn’t working why not try another tactic? Most people are thrilled to see a kid show up and offer to do work in exchange for money to pay for a wholesome activity. People just want to see a little initiative and know their money is well spent. I know I may sound harsh but conservatives have the world watching them. By training our kids to be different and self sufficient we make a statement to the world that we are not on the dole.
Maybe just look at this temporary problem of lack of funds for uniforms as an opportunity to brainstorm about making money as a family. Remember that God created the universe so He surely can open up opportunities for his children to clothe themselves and maybe even have extras left over to bless another family in need.
You obviously don’t know much about the boyscouts if you are willing to suggest he do something that is strictly forbidden by the organization...not to mention, selling the cards was working just fine, it just doesn’t help him with the supplies. He is to NEVER go to someone’s house without being on the buddy system (parents are able to fill in for the buddy if need be), and they are NEVER to enter the home. They also have to be in uniform while doing activities that are scout related.
So, I suggest if you don’t know the rules of the organization, maybe do your own research before implying I am a Dem and suggesting he do things that would get him in trouble with the scout leaders.