Princess Diaries? Heather Matarazzo? She said they were friends. People decided to read more into that without any real evidence. Hathaway's brother is homosexual, so she doesn't feel uncomfortable with gays or lesbians.
Why do people hate her? She's become the successful "good girl" without being especially or appealingly good, the successful "top girl" or "head girl" without being particularly charismatic, a successful cover girl without being a great beauty.
She doesn't have the common touch that wins people over or the great personal magnetism that also appeals to people. She's doesn't come across as especially kind, or good-natured, or friendly. Not even wittily and cleverly mean. To the many haters, it apparently seems like she isn't that interested in other people in any way. Probably not a great actress either.
Maybe it's just jealousy, but there's a feeling that she got further than she earned or deserved. That can be something visceral that you feel in your gut rather than reason out. And yes, Hathaway-hatred or Anne-ophobia is one of those distractions that take people's minds off what's actually going on in the world.
right diaries not bride.