Yeah, either that or I realize that I am not entitled to health insurance from anyone. My employer and I both contribute to the cost. Plus, the employer self-insures, so it is all coming from his budget, not some insurance tooth fairy.
It’s perfectly reasonable to have standards to be included in the “best” plan. It’s saving me and him money.
Note that this is all free and voluntary. Not the “mark of the beast.” Learn to distinguish private from public.