I run into nice people wherever I go - even NYC. When my husband and I went to Paris as part of a business trip, people told me how unfriendly people were there and how they hated Americans and how snobby they were, but everyone was so nice! It is about love. What you give out comes back and when you treat people with kindness, that is what you get. There are still some places in the world that are truly Christian (rather than “religious” and divisive) and pro-family and pro life. And people are kind and civil to all. There ARE still people who were raised to be civil, all over the world.
In these days when governments go crazy and life seems upside down, it is important to remember that there are a lot more of “us” than there are of “them” and decency can prevail.
Generally speaking the same for me. Deep urban is usually more stressed and consequently hostile. Often the most wary/standoffish folks are in the extreme rural settings ("You ain't from around here, are ya boy?!").
For the most part you get back what you put into it.