I lay a lot of blame on the young men. Female students do homework without being forced by parents. They graduate from college at higher rates than men.
Men drink, play video games and watch football.
So what is going on in our society that young men should have become what you describe? You describe the problem and who to blame but you seem to have missed the point of the entire thread. Men are basically saying “women don’t need us and we certainly don’t need them”!