Nope and nope.
Just trying to provide some historical perspective on the issue. Our present approach to the age of consent, which is as I said fine by me, is cultural and legal, not medical or inherent in the human condition.
This should give us a little humility and help us avoid the arrogance of presentism. But it won’t. As your post eloquently shows.
No you are not.
You are trying to say that government should encourage the lowest standards and most vile thing, because some cannot handle high standards