At one time this was mostly an urban black issue...no longer...
Quick story...
A friend of my daughter (white) was telling her he realized his mother was a slut because she had six kids...
Now bear in mind my daughters mother (my wife) had six kids (4 are mine 2 from a former marriage) and that statement took my daughter a bit aback since both moms had six kids...
...until he mentioned all six kids had different daddies...
one night we had a woman come in to talk about how much our group had helped her...she wore new fancy Nike sneakers and told us all three of her babies were of different fathers, from a group that was not her race....
I thought from then on that all we were doing is enabling this stuff.....once is a mistake...twice maybe...but three times?