"Other men get to sleep with your wife? Hah - Amateurs!"
Posted on 12/13/2012 3:08:08 PM PST by Morgana
Brian and his wife, both in their early forties, like to meet new couples privately over dinner and drinks to talk and gauge mutual interest in trading partners for sex. He’s been swinging for ten years. “I’m very happily married,” he says. So why the interest in this activity? Married swingers aren’t looking for affairs or romantic ties outside their home; they want sex with different partners—and the endorsement of their significant other. Consensual, recreational sex within the confines of matrimony.
The allure of swinging isn’t so much sex with someone new but that “vibe in the air which adds to an encounter,” he says. “It's a feeling most people haven't had since they were 17 and trying to get to second base. You don't know how the night is going to end.”
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Really, you think that the swingers are different than they were in the 1960s and you think that when it comes to letting other people have sex with their husbands and wives that the ones that desire that, out number those who don’t?
You keep trying to push some nonsense on this thread as though you have some body of research, but you are just pushing nonsense, and no, they are not conservatives.
I just meant to say not many people save themselves for marriage anymore, I will try to teach my kids this... but our society seems dead set against me.
That’s interesting. Not that I’m going to try it or anything. But I bet if the people doing it had glowing arrows pointing them out people would be amazed.
Well, at 16 (when I was officially allowed to date), I would hold hands occasionally and I thought it was a home run heh.
How far we’ve come, and I’m still in my late 30s, meaning we’ve come a long ways in not that long a time. I don’t mean for the better either.
The only body of research I have is our own. We count some of these people among our best friends.
And you aren’t in any position to judge whether or not they’re conservative. So thanks for the input, but we will stick with what we know to be true.
Have a pleasant evening.
You only know your wife swapping friends yet you were trying to lead people to believe that conservatism is common in regards to the swinging thing.
What a crock, my guess is that your idea of conservative, is not conservative.
Lol!
Yeah, the country at large isn’t much help, is it? SIGH.
Swingers have a high divorce race. Their minds, relationships and characters are shallow.
It is indeed very common among the ones we know. And I’ll bet we have a much larger body of data to base our opinion on than you have upon which to base yours.
And what you guess is just that and is of no more value than a beer fart in a whirlwind.
Have a good day.
"Other men get to sleep with your wife? Hah - Amateurs!"
So somehow you are part of a large social circle of wife swappers and you want to convince us that they are social conservatives?
If we look at your posting history are we going to find that you are a social conservative, or one of those libertarian types?
My guess is that your wife swapping group of friends, and yourself, are not social conservatives, to the radical extreme of where you can claim wife swappers as being social conservatives with a straight face, in post after post and into 2 days worth of posting.
Sure, they are creepy and I have never met a conservative one, they have all been lefty/libertarian types (hello..they are wife swappers!), but we are being told by the weirdo defending the practice, that most of them are conservative.
He doesn't have any evidence of that of course, but he does have a social liberal agenda that he wants to promote.
Publicizing your lifestyle on the internet is generally not a sign that you want to be left alone.
I had no idea what was going on at the time. When I was much, much older, my mother gently explained to me why we so abruptly stopped visiting with those “nice” people.
Perverts have to “recruit” to expand the pool of their sexual partners. Marriage has nothing to do with this pervert’s behavior and thinking. Same with his pervert “wife.”
They are not “married” except in a shallow materialistic way, if they do this and studies from the seventies showed swingers are almost guarenteed divorce. Their hearts and souls are not entertwined; their sexual and spiritual connection(what constitutes love in real marriage) is the equalivant of LA’s porn stars. Abuse and violence is high, too in these circles.
People are free choose life with the depth of prostitutes but they are not free to shut down or dominate commentary on the dark consequencces of their whoredom.
Your guesses are just that, guesses. And you’re completely free to look as far back into my 15 year posting history as you wish.
My data set is larger than your prejudice. Have a nice weekend.
I did look at your posting history before I posted, post 52, that is why I posted it.
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