I find when my lady puts out a little more, even a little bit, my interest in porn goes away real fast.
Go figure.
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One of the rare times we concur.
Almost every married friend of mine 30-45 yo range is in the same exact boat. And we are really good dudes - no cheating, supportive, etc.
Its always the same old bs excuses and after awhile its the only option for those who refuse to cheat or divorce for whatever reason.