** You don’t think people had weird sex before porn? **
Dude, if someone wants to masturbate while watching beastiality, necrophilia, group sex, pedophilia, or lactating anorexic bimbos, they can knock themselves out. It’s none of my bidness as long as it’s not a coercive paraphilia that involves a nonconsenting person. Nor will you ever find me preaching to you or anyone else about sexuality.
Most porn addiction isn’t about sex anyway, or at least it’s not “The Problem.” It’s just a symptom of the problem, which is sucky communication patterns between 2 people that makes them drift apart emotionally over time.
(Notice I said “addiction,” which implies that one is dependent on the activity and cannot stop. That’s not the same thing as simple “participation,” so don’t get your whitey tighty panties all in a knot. ;)
Actually, you can take pedophilia off that list. Anyone who participates in child porn in any way whatsoever should be shot.