I really have never liked Bond for that very reason.
However, my husband says he does fall in love but those are the girls that die...
then at the end of the movie he is with someone and we are led to believe that he is in love...however by the next movie she is gone and you are then left to think, oh darn, didn’t work out.
You might like “The Living Daylights”. That’s the most romantic film in the series for me(even more so than “On Her Majesty’s Secret Service”). Dalton’s Bond and the innocent Kara have a sweet chemistry that’s atypical for the series.