But you HAVE dismissed everything, and you HAVE stopped fighting, and you ARE trying to justify your actions by bringing God into this as a crutch. Your different perspective has a name: naivete.
Yes, God is in control, but NO we are not released. When Paul was shipwrecked, was God in control? Yes. Did Paul pray? Yes. But did Paul swim like heck too? Yes. You have stopped swimming.
You do not know my heart, but you’re judging me. I have not stopped swimming, I’m just swimming in a different direction. You fight your way, I’ll fight mine.
End of conversation, you get the last word.