Note: I am going to help her pay them all off(a month or two if possible), its not the money I am worried about, its getting them all known, balances, and who to pay so that the credit agencies are reported that they are paid in full. Her credit will have to repair the natural way over time.
Again, thank you Freepers sooo much for the replies!!! Please keep them coming as she will be reading this thread.
get her credit report off freecreditreport.com to find out all her creditors
no, stop. being a white knight is never good. I get the desire to help her. The question is how to help her. The issue is enabling. If this is a one off then ok. Sit down and make sure the entire problem is known. It’s time to be father not bank, law not rug.
“Note: I am going to help her pay them all off(a month or two if possible”...I know you love your daughter but make her work thru this with your guidence...A man I know paid off his sons $40,00.00 debt only to have his son come back two years later and say ‘Dad I’m in debt again’...Dad had nothing left to give...True story. I don’t mean to be hard but it does happen.....”V”