Yea, well my mothers sisters aunts cousins best friend was born with no arms or legs. She did all she could but obviously couldn't work so she cared for her nieces and nephews while their parents worked in the coal mines. When they died of black lung disease she cared for all the kids till she died of a premature death. She fell down the stairs, rolled out the front door, across the lawn and into the path of a speeding garbage truck.
Tragic.
An anecdote does not a mistake make.