Actually, the divorce statistics show that the standard of living for men goes up and for women goes way down when they divorce. The resentment of men paying child support is a real problem since the women do the child care and are expected to have some sort of (low paying) job and the parent with whom the child(ren) reside(s) always must provide an amount equal and well in excess to the little bit the parent paying child support contributes. So who is the slave?
You are a liar.
Feminist myth. For most men, standard of living drops by 10% to 40% in the years after a divorce.
http://divorce.usu.edu/files/uploads/Lesson7.pdf