Read the first 6 words of your first post to this thread. Jerk.
So why didn’t you tell all the other folks on the thread who offered advice to piss off? If you post a story on a forum, you are going to get comments. If you can’t take a little constructive criticism in the mix, don’t go fishing for sympathy.
BTW, I do have sympathy, my dad is also dealing with senility. I should have started out by acknowleging that. I wish you well.