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Lady,

Not to be crass, but you are kidding right? I am not going to say there aren’t their share of dogs out there, there are, but there are a lot of women who honestly don’t appreciate a good thing either.

Cheating is hardly a one way street. Women may be more discrete about it, and generally have lower sex drives, but don’t think for one minute that guys are the only ones who stray.

There is a reason the cliche of the neglected housewife exists.. because its true. But because she’s being “neglected” its okay, yet if a wife holds out on her husband for months, and he finds it elsewhere, its the end of the bloody world.. nonsense, all nonsense.

I think a lot of women have completely unrealistic expectations of men and marriage honestly, I have female friends who cut their husband off over petty meaningless stuff, but they are the first ones crying when they find he’s strayed.

Frankly, you aren’t giving it to your man, don’t complain when he finds it somewhere else, and vice versa. Unless there is some health issue or something.

Can preach puritan values all day long, but I’ve seen pleanty of decent guys driven away, and others not able to get the time of day from women, because of stupid nonsense.

Sex isn’t what a relationship is all about, in the grand scheme of things its actually relatively minor, but when its neglected or unfulfilled, it becomes incredibly major for most people. IF there is no pressure relief valve, it will be found somwhere sooner or later.

Cheating is hardly a one way street. Women may be more discrete about it, and generally have lower sex drives, but don’t think for one minute that guys are the only ones who stray.

Men generally cheat initially for the the sexual release, women generally cheat due to lack of love and affection in their marriage and the guy she is cheating with shows her some love and affection her hubbie is not giving her.

There are also plenty of women out there who want sex on a regular basis and love it just as much as men. Not all women are dysfunctional with low libido..far from it. I know plenty of older guys who say their wives initiate sex and want it. Most women in surveys say they are not getting enough intimacy in their marriage and want more.