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To: Fred Hayek; Ben Bolt; ansel12
“One of the things I also found that some women equate self employed with unemployed. Even when I had several contracts (engineering/commissioning support) active - a refinery,some pipeline companies,a chemical plant,and a biomedical manufacturing company,it did not matter. I did not have a “real job”. Then what was I doing with 60 hour weeks?”

I know what you mean FRiend, but those women aren't worth more than one night anyway. You have to find a woman more in touch with logic and less with instincts. I know, you're probably laughing now...

It's an instinctual turn-on for women to see a man “doing something”, especially physical labor. Physical performance has been an essential trait for men throughout 90%+ of human history. Sports, physical work, and combat are how women found the “top dog”. That is why they are so attracted to soldiers, athletes and roughnecks. In the past, a stronger man could have easily killed you and taken your woman.

If she doesn't see him work and/or understand what his work is, she is less likely to feel this type of attraction. This is why women are often more attracted to a blue-collar guy than a low level office worker. Some say it is only because the blue-collar guys are in better shape, but that is only part of the reason.

IMO, this is still a small part of attraction and I wouldnt worry about it. The CEO or owner earning 10-20x more has a far greater advantage. Not only because of nice stuff and shiny things. Leadership, wealth and security are even more important than physical strength. In the past, a leader could be somewhat weak but have many strong men under his command and have friends/family that respect him enough to care for his woman/children should he fall. Leadership and wealth are as instinctual to women as 6-pack abs.

58 posted on 06/28/2012 5:27:40 AM PDT by varyouga
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To: varyouga

You have to find a woman more in touch with logic and less with instincts.

Good observations . When you put together a team of substance you end up with an A team leveraged in focus , ability and drive . Aint looking for anything else and I could care less .
Work smart and play hard .


59 posted on 06/28/2012 6:02:23 AM PDT by Ben Bolt
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